There is no black and white to this, but instead, there is a grey area that rare people see. Does it come down to genetics or environment? No one can really be sure. The word greed might be thrown around and pick a team. It isn’t as simple as that.
You aren’t seen as more free if you are this way or closed off if you aren’t. We all are people at the end of the day, and not everyone will agree with your choices. What matters is if you can look yourself in the mirror and accept who you truly are. This isn’t the latest trend nor is it called a phase.
This is real as the sky you see. It can be easy to block out people who were once there for you, then suddenly leave without a trace. You think they negative, but they might be scared themselves or not sure how to handle you anymore.
The reasons some people might be apprehensive is because they put people in categories of boxes and when you don’t fit the box they thought you belong in, then life suddenly feels off balanced to them.
To break the cycle of this, people should simply push down the boxes, and let it fall down flat next to each other. Walk hand in hand across it with whoever you want and don’t forget to smile.